COMETH THE HOUR, COMETH THE MAN?
September 5, 2011 Leave a comment
COMETH THE HOUR, COMETH THE MAN?
Recently, falling into conversation with a stranger at a party, I discovered he was presently engaged in a ‘leadership identification and training’ exercise for the large organisation which employed him. We had a most interesting discussion on the qualities of leadership, whether you could be trained for it, and what most institutions of long standing actually meant by ‘leadership’.
Obviously you can be trained to have qualities that will be useful to you as a leader, such as influencing skills, speaking ability, etc but I’m not at all sure that leadership can be ‘trained for’, or even if it’s desirable to do so. Firstly, I’m rather sceptical of the suggestion that long standing institutions – government departments, sections of the armed forces, ancient banks, etc. actually want ‘leaders’. To lead implies a journey: that you start in one place, that you end up in another, that the going was difficult, and that people accompany you. Business, large institutions etc normally wish to continue much as they are, but bigger and better, with more profit. I put it to my interesting companion that what organisations such as his really desired was not ‘leaders’ but ‘more effective operatives’.
What people often secretly understand about leadership is ‘I’ll be in charge, and Very Important, and people will Do as I Say, and I’ll get paid lots and everyone will admire or envy me’. Now this may well be a part of being a leader, but it isn’t what it’s actually about.
Leaders come in all shapes and sizes as do situations. Cometh the hour, cometh the man is sometimes the case, and out of some tragedy, formed in suffering and forced by necessity, a leader will emerge, often not willingly but because something has to be done and there’s no one else to do it. Sometimes this doesn’t happen, as seems to be the case in some of the rebellions in the middle Eastern states, and without a leader to galvanise the action, no progress seems to be possible.
But within an organisation, how do you find them? They’re probably not the most amenable of people, so are they the ones who will rise swiftly through the grades, ticking all the right boxes? That’s more likely to be emollient, smooth, operatives, people whose keenest attention is on the nuances of power being exercised, and not necessarily on the task in hand. Leaders are perceived as being in action, but to be competent they also need time to think, to plan, to reflect. They have to know what the purpose of their group is; for whom it works and what is wanted of it. They have to understand the ethical and other constraints that surround them. They have to be sure that the course of action to which they are about to commit their group meets the criteria. We can all think of recent examples of leaders, the darlings of the media for a time, who led their companies on whirlwind dances which briefly enhanced the profits, but which were destroying the long term interests of the company. The leader has to be able to separate his own personal goals – get famous, get rich, get a knighthood, and those of the group or body of which he is in temporary command. He should accept from the outset that his leadership will be temporary, and in all probability will end in circumstances which are not exactly what he would have chosen.
Then he has to have at least some of the gifts of leadership. Although it is rarely mentioned, physical health and strength are important. It helps if he can speak and inspire others. He should be able to take advice and to keep his own counsel, giving way gracefully when appropriate and standing his ground firmly when it is not. He should be able to identify and encourage the talents and skills of those around him, and for me it is one of the defining characteristics of a good leader, that others mature and flourish in his wake.
He has to be competent over whatever his business does and inspire confidence in other people. He has to be able to evaluate risk and have a balanced attitude to it. He must not be so risk averse that he remains quivering in his office, and never sails out and says to his fellows, today’s the day, come with me; but equally he must not be reckless and squander his valuable people. He has to accept responsibility. This means, he takes the blame; he carries he can; if a blood price has to be paid, his is the blood. When my husband was commodore of a small recreational sailing group in Scotland, or when my future son in law takes a party, including my precious daughter, out sailing, I generally look whoever I regard as the leader in the eye before they go, and ask: What is your chief responsibility here? They are all smart fellows: they know the answer. Bring everyone back alive. Winning the race would be the wrong answer! One joked with me once, Can’t I lose just one person? But I wasn’t for joking, and replied, Only you – and for god’s sake, don’t do that. The reason why traditionally the captain is the last man to leave the ship is not just to do with salvage. He’s the most competent, experienced: he’s there to see that the crew gets off and heads for survival in the best possible order, and in archetypal terms if the sea gods demand a sacrifice, he’s not necessarily willing, but he’s still standing, ready. He’s the best, the main man – who else is it going to be but him? In the same way,
honourable heads of bodies resign if their organisation has been found wanting, for all that unfit leaders increasingly try to wriggle out of this tradition.
In short, to aspire to be leader is a perilous ambition for more will be required of you by fate than appears on the job description. The leader has to be a hero, which may not be clear to him when he applies for the post. If you advertised the post as Hero Wanted: would you get many applicants? The life insurance offered to such a person wouldn’t be on attractive terms.
One of my personal favourites both as hero and leader is the Duke of Wellington. Congratulated in gushing terms by a lady after his victory at Waterloo, Wellington drew himself up to his considerable height and dismissed her compliments. “Madam,” he is reported to have said, “When I looked out over the scene of the battle the morning after the victory, I considered it the worst day of my life, such as I shall answer for on the Day of Judgement.’ Now there, I thought, is a proper attitude for a war leader.
Anyone can apply for the post of leader who likes. I quite appreciate that a man applying for a post probably should be thinking of his duties in more practical and down to earth terms than those I have discussed. A chap setting out on a day’s pleasure sail probably would prefer not to be reminded that from the moment when he steps into the boat as skipper until the point when his crew set their feet on dry land again, he has to answer for the lives of his companions. As for identifying or training them, I think that’s slightly more problematic. Leaders aren’t created by someone padding along to their desk and saying, Hi there, we think you have the makings of a leader, would you like to come and tick these boxes so you can be one?
Leaders stand up and have to be reckoned with.
(NB I have referred to the leader in masculine terms, but of course man embraces woman.)